Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Calling All Men…But Who Will Answer? By: Paul Emery


            On September 30 Sherwood Baptist Church is releasing a new movie called Courageous.  As they have done with Facing the Giants, Fireproof, and Flywheel, they have written books based off of the screen play.  I took time to start perusing the newest book last week at work, and all I can say is it is going to be a great movie.  So what does this upcoming movie have to do with me writing today? Courageous is about Fatherhood, and quite frankly that is something that I’m lacking in, as well as many other men in the world today.  Where are our fathers? Where have I been when it comes to the life of my wife and my children?

            As some of you know I’m a very busy person as I go to school full-time, hold two jobs, although right now I’m holding three, and then I study and need to sleep.  It is easy to say that what I’m doing is important, and indeed it is.  I am, and have been the sole provider for my family since April 2004.  I’m not complaining about this role, in fact I love it.  I have a beautiful wife, whom I’m about to celebrate 10 years of matrimony with here in a little over a week.  I’m blessed with 5 wonderful children whom God has entrusted into my stewardship (what was He thinking?)

            Men, I’m fired up today.  My own decisions and behavior have lead to me being fired up, but as I look in the mirror, I know there are many other men who also are living two lives.  Maybe they are not doing it intentionally, maybe they are, but it is time for the hammer to fall, on my life, and the life of any other father who is not honoring Christ with our every breath.  It is kind of funny as a soon to be Chaplin in the military told me that my arguments regarding abortion cannot be based solely off of my faith. The truth of the matter is all our beliefs and decisions should be based off of the Word of God.

            1 John 1:5-7 says; “And this is the message we have heard from Him and announce to you, that God is light, and in Him there is no darkness at all.  If we say that we have fellowship with Him and yet walk in the darkness we lie and do not practice the truth; but if we walk in the light as He Himself is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin.”

            I’ve been walking in the darkness lately.  Not every day, and in fact I have really only struggled some last week, but in that struggle I was saying I have fellowship with God, and yet I was still doing my own thing, I was in darkness.  Now I’ve come clean with my LORD, and my wife which is the only reason I’m even speaking about this today.  You see I want to be a man who is a man of integrity, and I want to be a man with credibility, so I need to keep short accounts.

This morning as I was at work I got thinking about my struggle of last week.  I often times think with sinful desire, and since I believe Exodus 34:6-7. “Then the LORD passed by in front of him and proclaimed, ‘The LORD, the LORD God, compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in lovingkindness and truth; who keeps loingkindness for thousands, who forgives iniquity, transgression and sin; yet He will by no means leave the guilty unpunished, visiting the iniquity of fathers on the children and on the grandchildren to the third and forth generations.’” My thoughts turned to my son, and my daughters. 

Do I want them struggling with the sins that I have struggled with? Do I want them to suffer the consequences I have suffered? Do I want my children to not be able to attain to the calling God may put on their life because their sin has cost them that calling? Again if you read my testimony you have seen that I’ve been very forthcoming with my sin, and also the calling I believe God put on my life.  I do not wish these sins upon anybody, and my heart breaks that I may have forfeited the call God put on my life.

            As I was meditating on these truths today I had to ask myself a question.  What is it that I want my children to demonstrate in my life? I’m very proud of the work ethic I have that was instilled in me by my father.  I’m proud of the fact that I am pursuing a college education to better provide for my family.  I’m proud that I have stayed married to the same woman for almost 10 years.  Although all of these things are things to be proud of they are not the end all be all of my life. What matters in my life is fellowship with Jesus Christ. 

            Here is the mission, if you chose to accept it.  In the book/movie Courageous an event happens that leads one of the characters to begin a study on Biblical fatherhood.  I think this is important, but I think there is more to it than that as well.  Over the next several weeks I intend to begin doing a study on the roles of men.  This is a vast topic, and one that will not make for a light study.  I have spent three years (not continuously in one book, so I figure it will not hurt to change my study) in 1 John.  I don’t think that this study will take three years to complete, especially if I’m faithful in working on it a little every day. 

            Through the course of this study I will look at the roles of men in different areas.  Here is a short list.
1.      Walk with Jesus
2.      Relationship with Wife
3.      Relationship with Children
4.      Relationship with believers
5.      Relationship with the society (this will focus on moral issues and the stance on them)
6.      Relationship with the world (this will focus on evangelism and sharing faith)
Some of these will be quite intense, others maybe not so much.  In the world we live in today there may be some disagreement amongst the political spectrums, but ultimately what matters is what is talked about in Scripture.  My premise is, and always will be, that the complete 66 books are inspired by God, inerrant (without error), and authorative in every area they address, which means they are profitable for teaching, for correction, for reproof, for training in righteousness as said in 2 Tim. 3:16.

            I would like to see other men share their thoughts and studies on these topics.  If you chose to accept this mission you can e-mail me your thoughts on the topic and I will post them on the blog.  If you want to encourage each other, I will gladly provide an address list of anyone who is willing to join in this process with me and phone numbers so we can encourage each other in our walks with Christ. If you are involved in local fellowship work with the other men in your Church.  If you are not involved in local fellowship, get involved!

            I hope some of you will read this, and I hope some of you will join with me.  If you can, get and read the book “Courageous” by Randy Alcorn.  If you live within reasonable driving distance of a theater that is playing this movie I would encourage you to try to go on opening weekend.  Let us send a message to Hollywood that family friendly movies are worth the effort to produce, and will increase their profit margin.

“Scripture taken from the NEW AMERICAN STANDARD BIBLE, © 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977 by the Lockman Foundation.  Used by permission.”

           
Click to see trailer for Courageous

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Can we make the future happen?: A Book Review of “Futurecast” by George Barna By: Paul Emery


Our world is constantly changing.  The things once thought as pure science fiction are becoming a common day experience in our world today.  With the iPhone, Androids, and other smart-phones; iPads and iPods; desktop computers down to mini notebook computers; and so much more, technology keeps advancing faster and faster each and every day.  And it isn’t even technology that is constantly changing; world views, philosophies, moral and religious beliefs our life behaviors and choices are as well.  As these changes continue to occur many sit and scratch their heads and wonder what has happened.   These realizations are what lead me to decide to read and review “Futurecast, what TODAY’S TRENDS mean for TOMORROW’S WORLD” by George Barna.

            George Barna is a respected author and researcher in many circles, and has committed his life to researching out numerous trends in today’s society.  Having conducted many statistical polls of and on various topics he continues to pass on his findings to help whomever he can.  I became most familiar with George Barna almost 10 years ago when he conducted a poll on what it means to be “born-again” working alongside Josh McDowell and was floored with his findings.  Now George Barna has decided to write another book discussing a plethora of statistical findings so that people can take a look at the statistics and make a choice on their involvement in the future.

            This book, although very interesting, requires a keen willingness to sit down and to truly read.  It is possible to scan this book to look at the statistical findings, but to fully understand how these trends are shaping the future; one must be willing to put some work into this book.  However, the person who will benefit the most from this book is a person who is willing to engage in the culture war.

            Many of the chapters are very informative, and have some great information.  However, what I found most beneficial about this book is that Mr. Barna does not just hand out statistic after statistic, but addresses each issue with a full court press.  Also most pleasing to me was George Barna’s willingness to issue a challenge in his final chapter, and speak the truth, that people who are involved can make a difference in directing the trend of our future. 

            All and all I would give this book a 5 out of 5.  It takes a willingness to chew some meat, but the value of the information and the encouragement to get involved makes this book worth the read.  Mr. Barna made a comment I’ve heard many times.  “There are three types of people when it comes to the future: those who will watch it happen, those who will make it happen, and those who will wonder what happened.  Which of those three types will you be?”

(Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Tyndale House Publishers as part of their Blogger Review Program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commision’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”)

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

“A Call to Reclaim America’s Faith & Promise Be the People” a Review


“It is time to take a long, hard look at our country and take action to reclaim our unique American vision.  We the People must stand up and Be the People because we are ultimately responsible for our nation’s future (Swain, Carol, PhD).”

            I originally chose to review “Be the People” by Dr. Carol Swain, because it was just getting released and had yet to be reviewed.  Yet with a busy house of 5 children and a remarkable wife, I’m a little slow to get my review done, and in fact have now heard an interview with Dr. Swain on Today’s Issues.  However, just because I’ve been beaten to the punch doesn’t mean I don’t have a few thoughts of my own to share.

            First to get it out of my system I’m going to share the one bad thing I have to say about this book.  Dr. Swain is a remarkable authoress, but I think she needs to learn a little bit more about control on chapter lengths.  Although I can see how the subject matter worked together, it just seemed to me that a few more chapters would not have deterred from the book. Now that is done, let me move on.

            I believe that every person, regardless of political affiliation, should be willing to take a look at this book.  Yes, Dr. Swain is definitely a very conservative black woman, but the amount of research she put into this book is remarkable.  Dr. Swain shows that she knows how to research, which I’m sure has come from her years of educational pursuits.  Dr. Swain has committed 85 pages in Appendixes, bibliographies for each chapter, and an Index.  If that is not satisfying enough for the cynic, then you can always check out her website!

            Dr. Swain takes the time to address a wide plethora of issues that certainly need addressed in our society today.  With the unfortunate treatment of conservative educators in today’s Colleges, Dr. Swains willingness to address these issues, regardless of the cost, makes this book one of the most valuable books for those today who desire to reclaim America for her former glory.  I think that this book is a must read for all those who believe that we can “Reclaim America’s Faith & Promise.”

            In my humble opinion I’m giving this book 5 stars out of 5. 

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Booksneeze as part of their Blogger Review Program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commision’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Christian and Non-Christian Hypocrisy

One of the biggest charges brought against Christians and Christianity on a regular basis is the charge of hypocrisy. It is said that Mahatma Gandhi once said: “I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.” So what is the verdict? Is the Church plagued by hypocrisy? The verdict, from where I stand...Guilty!
Now there are probably a few people reading this who are thinking: “See I always knew that. Why would I want to waste my time with Christianity?” On the other spectrum there are probably fellow believers who want to call me and tell me I don’t know what I’m talking about. Some of you may even be wondering if what I’m doing will only bring more division and attacks against the Church from unbelievers. I would encourage you all to finish reading this blog before you jump to any conclusion.
So why is this an issue for me? When the accusation of “hypocrite” is launched at professing believers of Christ generally the believer will shut down, and then the accusation is assumed to be true. We of course are not helped by the likes of Tim Haggard, Jim Baker, and Dr. Ergun Caner, just to name a few. Does this mean that we believers should just stick our heads in the sand because people have chosen their own behavior which has brought shame to the name of Christ? Absolutely and emphatically, not!
For the past year and a couple of months I have been doing some intense studying of the epistle (letter) of 1 John. Almost two years ago now I was exposed to some great training in what is called the Inductive Bible Study Method, which I have been using as I began this intense study. It is with this in mind that I found a few passages in 1 John and elsewhere that I think make what I want to discuss important. Now for my unbelieving friends, remember I asked you to read with an open mind. My believing friends the translation I’ll be using for the verses I add is the New American Standard or Holman Christian Standard (it depends on which Bible I’m using on the day I write).
At the beginning of this blog I accepted the fact that the charge of hypocrisy is a justified charge against Christians and the Christian Church. However, I do think that it is important to define our terms. Webster Dictionary defines hypocrisy in three parts. First, “a pretense of having a virtuous character, moral or religious beliefs or principles, etc., that one does not really possess.” Second, “a pretense of having some desirable or publicly approved attitude.” Finally, the last definition is “an act or instance of hypocrisy.” So what type of hypocrisy is most prevalent in the Church? Well, I’ll get to that in due time.
I’m going to share just a few incidents both in my life, and incidents that have been on the news as well to show how my verdict is accurate. The incidents from the news are all well known, and have been brought up in conversations I have had with people of different political or even a Biblical understanding.
A few semesters ago I got to know a fellow student in my Anatomy and Physiology 1 class. There were a few things I surmised about her before we became friends. For instance I knew that she was most likely of a lifestyle persuasion which I am Biblically opposed to, but a lifestyle I have had struggles with myself. This actually came up in a phone conversation we had about halfway into the semester. I had let her know that according to the Scriptures I know her lifestyle to be a sin. This led her to ask me about Pastor Fred Phelps and his protest at military funerals. As I responded to her, so I respond to anyone else who has this question. From a Biblical perspective I believe that what Pastor Fred Phelps is doing is contrary to the Word of God.
Now comes the part where fellow believers may think I’m wrong. So instead of me talking, let us go to the Word of God, and see what God says. 1 John 2:6: “the one who says he abides in Him (Christ) ought to walk in the same manner as He walked.” This is John’s letter to the Church, which Church specifically we are not sure. It is highly likely that John knew that this letter would go to several Churches. So what did he mean by this? The very title “Christian” applies to one who is Christ like. Those of us, who are believers in Jesus Christ, claim to be His followers.
The other question we need to answer is what it means to “abide in Him.” This is actually quite simple as well. The Greek word used for “abide” here is “meno” (Strong’s Reference Greek #3306) which means to be united in heart, mind, and will. This verse also tells us “we ought to walk in the same manner as He walked.” Again this word “walk” is a very important word in this passage. The Greek word for “walk” is “peripateo” (Strong’s Reference Greek #4043). This Greek word can also be translated “occupied with.”
So if the Scriptures clearly tell us that to be like Christ we need to act and respond like Christ, it leads us to another question. How did Christ respond to sinners while He was here on earth, and in fact even now? Again for this answer it is imperative that we go straight to the Word of God. Take a look at Mark 2:15-17.
While He was reclining at the table at Levi’s house, many tax collectors and sinners were also guests with Jesus and His disciples, because they were many that were following Him. When the scribes and Pharisees saw that He was eating with sinners and tax collectors, they asked His disciples, “Why does He eat with tax collectors and sinners?” When Jesus heard this, He told them, “Those who are well don’t need a doctor, but the sick [do need one]. I don’t come to call the righteous, but sinners. (Holman Christian Standard Bible, HCSB)
What does that look like in the lives of Christians? Are we looking for the sick, or would we rather be around the well? This is part of the problem with Christianity today. Christians often times make one of two mistakes when they come to saving faith. They either choose to forsake all of their secular friends for the sake of their new friends in the Church. Or they chose to maintain the same relationship they have always had with their secular friends, and so they still go out partying, or drinking, chasing girls or guys, and such, thus never being renewed in their mind as we are told to be by the Apostle Paul in Romans 12:1.
Both of these decisions will lead to a form of disaster, and that is just a simple truth. If we choose to only be around people of a like mind, we often do get this “holier then Thou” attitude. It can be in simple things like should we listen to only hymns, or are worship songs okay? What is the right translation? (Forgetting that Bible is not Man’s interpretation of God’s word, but it is actually God’s Word.) We look at those who have the freedom that they can still go out and have the occasion drink, and judge them as less Christian than ourselves.
There is no doubt in my life that I have made several bad decisions. These decisions have allowed those who I chose as leaders over me to question my salvation, and even contact my father, while he was alive, about their concerns. These changes have hurt those closest to me, especially my wife. I have at face value portrayed a moral and religious belief, and then acted contrary to it, and I have behaved like a hypocrite. So since I am a hypocrite, do I have the right to talk about hypocrisy? From my perspective I think I should address this issue, because there is an important difference in acting as a hypocrite, and being a hypocrite, and that difference is what I want to bring up next.
Now I want to take just a quick moment and address you who charge the church with hypocrisy. First I want to ask? Are you really trying to see the whole picture, or are you rather trying to justify your own decisions, and sin? If you are just trying to justify your own actions as right, since Christians do them as well, you may. However, it is vital that when judgment day comes, and it will come, that you realize that line will not work with the perfect judge, Jesus Christ.
Do you really want to know why the Church is full of hypocrites, and hypocrisy? It is simply because we are all still sinners, who still wrestle and struggle with the curse of sin. Those of us who call the name of Christ do just as many stupid things as those who don’t call on the name of Christ. Pastor Phelps is doing what he truly believes to be right, but he has forgotten that it is the sick whom Jesus was seeking to save.
I still struggle with immoral thoughts, adultery, small white lies, pride, arrogance, and that is just the short list. The question is though am I comfortable living in those sins, or am I daily calling on the LORD Jesus Christ to work in my heart, and my mind.
I urge you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. And do not conformed to the world, but transformed by the renewing of your minds, that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect. (Romans 12:1-2 New American Standard Bible, ©1977 The Lockman Foundation)
There are some key words that I want to point out here real quick. Those words are “transformed” and “renewing”. Both of these words are in the present imperative tense of Greek. The present imperative is a command to do something in the future, continuously, or repeated. Christians are in a daily struggle against our sin nature, and so we do fall at times, but what is important is God gives up the ability to get back up and try again.
The Apostle John tells us in 1 John 2:1: “My little children, I am writing these things to you that you may not sin. And if anyone sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous; (N.A.S.B, © 1977, The Lockman Foundation”) The Apostle John knew we were going to sin, but what mattered is; if we acknowledge our sin, then we can acknowledge that Christ paid the penalty for our sin. Not only that, but in 1 John 1:9 John writes, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (N.A.S.B, © 1977, Lockman Foundation).” I am convinced believers still fall into sin, but what matters is what has always mattered to Christ, the heart, and not the actions. A believer has the advantage in the fact that we have already been given forgiveness, and we have the Holy Spirit guiding our hearts leading us to true repentance, which is a 180 degree turn in our actions.
So I agree that there are Christians who are hypocrites. Now, I’m sure some of you might stop right here feel like you have your justification for hating Christians, but I did ask you to read with an open mind. Can only Christians be hypocrites? The answer is a resounding, NO!
There are many people who do not profess faith in Christ, who act as if their cares are for others. They are some wealthy people and organizations that start these great foundations, but what is their motive? I have no doubt that they genuinely want to do good, but notice how most of them keep their names on their foundations? Why is that? The truth is these multi-millionaires might be motivated by wanting the world to see how great of a humanitarian they are. I’m not necessarily saying this is the case, but it is worth looking at objectively.
Many of these people then claim that they take care of the poor, the downtrodden, the orphan, mother-earth, etc, etc, and they do to a point. These people ignore the fact that many Churches still have other ministries they support, food pantries, crisis pregnancy centers, and even missionary organizations that reach throughout the world. Churches, alongside Red Cross will send people, tools, money, and supplies to places hit by major natural disasters or war zones. So are they the only ones who then truly care for others?
I’m not trying to diminish the claim that these groups are doing the good work of the world, but again what is their motivation? In Isaiah 64 we see the prophet calling out for mercy before a holy, just, and righteous God, and in verse 6 he says, “For all of us have become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous deeds are like a filthy garment; and all of us wither like a leaf, and our iniquities, like the wind, take us away.”
Isaiah had a knack for understanding some basic truths. There is no doubt that all of us sin from time to time, we tell a lie, we steal a cookie from the cookie jar, we engage in immoral acts before marriage, or outside of marriage, we get mad, and say something hateful or mean to those whom we should love the dearest. Again God does not just look at our actions, but at our heart. So where is my heart today, where is your heart today?
When one acts and behaves as a good person for the sake of being a good person, they are already displaying hypocrisy. The issue isn’t about what they are doing, but how they see themselves, or how others see them. This is where believers in Christ are different. Ephesians 2:8-9 are some of the most important scriptures to believers, yet verse 10 is of equal importance.
For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them. (N.A.S.B ©1977, The Lockman Foundation)”
People are not saved because they are good people, or they have done good things. Romans 3:23 says, “For all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God.” Ephesians makes it clear that we are saved by the Grace of God, and why are we saved? Believers do not do good works because they are good people, but we do good works because Christ has prepared these works for us to bring glory to His name, and not to our own. What is supposed to motivate people is not what people think about us, but what we are doing to bring honor to the name of Jesus Christ.
One of the big cries today is that we need to be tolerant of people with different lifestyle, political, or moral traditions and beliefs. What is interesting, however, is these people who cry tolerance will target Christians who promote a Biblical worldview. They say that Christianity tramples over the rights of individuals, and therefore is an unworthy position to come from. My only question is how does that show tolerance? The truth of the matter is it does not.
These people tell us that we cannot assert our viewpoints on the viewpoints of others, and yet these people will constantly display hypocrisy to those who claim the name of Christ as conservative Evangelical Christians. These people who claim that Christianity tramples on the rights of individuals are themselves trampling on the rights of those who hold to a worldview based off of the Scriptures. If there is no absolute or moral right, and if the rights of an individual are supreme; then what makes their rights more important or valuable than my own? Are their rights of more value or importance than any person who professes Jesus Christ as LORD and Savior, and who live their lives in the doctrines and teaching of a Holy God?
In conclusion I will agree that there are times when there are hypocrites inside the Church. We do not all behave as we encourage others to behave, but when those who claim Christ fall into the act of hypocrisy what one needs to consider is if there is genuine repentance, and a request for forgiveness for us giving into our sin. Secondly, and this is important, it is not only Christians who are hypocrites. There are many people who are outside of the Church who also live in hypocrisy, or will act in hypocrisy. The people who charge others with hypocrisy for justification are often themselves in hypocrisy.